Find a better name for Row.commit_modifications() or fold the behavior into

See discussion in #1547 for context.

The name modifications is intended to map to the RPC method name ReadModifyWriteRow but the word modification is a synonym of mutation, so this method is poorly named. The method actually sends changes that

  • increment an int (stored in BT as 8 bytes)
  • append bytes to a cell value

so we should either

  • Fold it into Row.commit() as commit(append_only=True)
  • Rename it to something like Row.commit_cell_updates (or a better name than that)