Create a Node-API release checklist

What is the problem this feature will solve?

We need to make sure when we release a new version of Node-API we do not overlook any of the steps.

What is the feature you are proposing to solve the problem?

Let's add a document to the guides containing a list of steps necessary for creating a Node-API release PR.

What alternatives have you considered?

Looking at existing release commits to remember the steps. However, a new step will be added at https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45715/files#diff-2057dbe503dbb37a65a74cf86e056d50c27ba828070577e0f7f07e734365c9bcR658 which previous releases will not reflect.