GCC says
```
../cpython/Parser/string_parser.c: In function ‘fstring_find_expr’:
../cpython/Parser/string_parser.c:404:93: warning: ‘cols’ may be used uninitialized in this function [-Wmaybe-uninitialized]
  404 |     p2->starting_col_offset = p->tok->first_lineno == p->tok->lineno ? t->col_offset + cols : cols;
      |                               ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^~~~~~
../cpython/Parser/string_parser.c:384:16: note: ‘cols’ was declared here
  384 |     int lines, cols;
      |                ^~~~
../cpython/Parser/string_parser.c:403:45: warning: ‘lines’ may be used uninitialized in this function [-Wmaybe-uninitialized]
  403 |     p2->starting_lineno = t->lineno + lines - 1;
      |                           ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^~~
../cpython/Parser/string_parser.c:384:9: note: ‘lines’ was declared here
  384 |     int lines, cols;
      |         ^~~~~
```

and, indeed, if `PyBytes_AsString` somehow fails, lines & cols will not be initialized.

Move definition of UNUSED from modified headers of libmpdec to
_decimal.c itself. This makes the vendored source closer to the
standalone library and fixes build with --with-system-libmpdec.

Tested to build fine with either system libmpdec or the vendored one.