feat(reslve): Respect '--ignore-rust-version'

### What does this PR try to resolve?

This is a part of #9930.

### How should we test and review this PR?

I had considered several ways of implementing this.  I first looked at passing this into `ops::resolve*`.
.This would get a bit annoying with the function signature, so I considered moving it to a builder..
Each of the entry points is slightly different with different ownership needs, making it hard to have a common abstraction.
In doing this, I noticed we currently pass some state around to the resolver via `Workspace`, so I mirrored that.

The nice thing about this location is it provides a good place to hook in config and `package.resolve` so they affect this.

### Additional information

fix(help): Generalize --ignore-rust-version

### What does this PR try to resolve?

This is part of #9930 and updates for the help to accommodate #13738 and adding `--ignore-rust-version` to `cargo update`  for when they are stable

This includes
- Moving `--ignore-rust-version` to be under the "Manifest options" header
- Generalizing the help description

### How should we test and review this PR?

### Additional information